Connect with us

Hi, what are you looking for?

Dear Lira

DEAR LIRA: I met my girlfriend’s parents and realised I once slept with her father

Five years ago, I went through a bi phase and used to sleep around with pretty much everyone that came along, including other men. This changed when I fell in love with my new partner, who is everything to me. I recently met her parents and halfway through lunch realised that I had slept with her father. I was going to propose, but when my partner and her mother were away, he told me to end it with his daughter. I’m obviously in love – shall I just ignore him, or tell my partner?

I am not sure you could ever have a comfortable future with your new partner. To tell the truth would be to court disaster: a probable break-up, plus the risk of a permanent rift between father and daughter and father and wife. Hiding the truth would lead to toxic secret-keeping that could be equally destructive in the long run. If this whole family was as open-minded and sexually open as you, it might be possible for you to become part of it. However, the father – your former lover – has made it clear that you will not be welcome. Walk away now, and avoid the massive pain that would otherwise be inflicted on your partner, her family and yourself.

Latest

Local

Sizwe Dhlomo hit back at AKA trying to mock him on Sunday and didn’t mince his words. Taking to Twitter, the “Newzroom Afrika ”...

Local

Hip hop star AKA has accused Reebok SA of not paying him for his collection of the Reebok SneAKA. AKA went on Twitter to tell fans, who were asking...

Local

Metro FM presenter Lerato Kganyago‘s two months marriage to her husband Thami Ndala is over. Ndala and Kganyago have parted way after their much...

Local

What we know is that the viewers can’t wait to see the return of their favourite, Shaka who was killed, and they are hoping...

Local

Popular TV presenter and actress Dineo Langa (nee Moeketsi) has been dumped from The Queen, allegedly after asking for a three-month break to shoot...

Local

Veteran Sky Sports and Premier League Productions commentator Jim Beglin gave football-loving Zimbabweans a reason to smile when he surprised them with a greeting...

You May Also Like

Music

Hype Avenue got hold of the award-winning Afro-pop singer Zamajobe to discuss her upcoming reloaded tour which will be debut in the famous Bassline...

Celebrity News

After trending on South Africa’s Twitter for three days, Pulane Lenkoe, the girlfriend of Orlando Pirates midfielder Thandani Ntshumayelo, has spoken out about her...

Celebrity News

TALENTED Uzalo actress and musician, Thandeka Zulu has been allegedly fired. This after the starlet, who plays Nombuso in the SABC1 popular telenovela, was...

Celebrity News

Cape Town – Mariah Carey was questioned about her billionaire ex-fiancé James Packer in a recent interview and her response is so Mariah Carey....