Bigger IS better!
Society may give chubby, curvy and fat women plenty of reasons to feel insecure about our bodies, especially when we get naked. But this couldn’t be further from the truth. We possess certain assets that not only make sex amazing for us — but also for our partner.
1. We’ve got more cushion for the pushing.
Certain sex positions are less abrasive on the male pelvis with a curvier woman. The impact of thrust is absorbed, which allows a man to stroke intensely with minimal risk of injury for either partner. Sex positions that bring the pelvis of both partners close together (doggie style, woman on top, bridging) feel better when used with women with more developed lower bodies, says sexpert Tyomi Morgan.
In short, curvier women are able to handle deeper, longer, more intense strokes, ie. “she can take it”.
2. Men are instinctively attracted to us.
Men are visually stimulated by nature, and the sex appeal of woman is dependent on her ability to bear healthy children. A curvy woman with larger breasts, wider hips and a “juicy” booty triggers an instinctual attraction and desire to procreate, says Morgan. “She is viewed as being able to not only bear strong children but also to nurse them as well (wide hips/large breasts).
This fact alone arouses sexual energy and causes erections almost instantly. Maintaining a strong erection is what ensures a sexual experience is satisfying for both partners and curvy women have the best visual motivation,” says Morgan.
3. Our bodies are amusement parks.
Chubby women have more surface area to explore and typically the best areas to explore are major erogenous zones.
The butt, breasts, hips and thighs are areas that when touched with intention, arouse sexual energy and can be used in several sexual practices, says Morgan. “Body worship, a common practice in the BDSM lifestyle, is a love for and worship of body parts; typically legs, feet and asses are worshiped by licking, sucking, kissing and rubbing these parts. Body worship can arouse both partners.
Breast sex is also an option with some curvy women. It may not be a regular practice for many couples but breast sex can serve as a form of foreplay and a way to bring a new angle to fellatio. All of these variations of sexual practices help to extend the sexual experience when used as foreplay before intercourse,” says Morgan. Safe to say curvy girls are a body of fun.
4. Our shape enhances certain sex positions.
Curves are fluid, meaning when her body moves they move with her. In certain sex positions, like girl on top and doggie, sexy body parts move with each thrust given. “When erogenous zones shake, jiggle or ripple it drives a man wild, causing his sexual energy to spike while becoming more aroused.
Another appealing trait of doggie style is the sound a large bum makes when slapped against a man’s pelvis. it’s yet another trait that arouses a man during the act,” says Morgan.
5. We’ve got loads of confidence.
Curvy girls are better in bed if you’re curvy and confident, says dating expert Laurel House. Embrace that ass, those breasts, and the soft skin on your stomach!
“Let him grab, squeeze, and suck the extra skin. It’s a total turn-on for him! If, however, you attempt to hide those feminine curves by avoiding certain moves and positions that might accentuate your assets, you’ll be taking away from the experience and pleasure for both you and him,” says House.
Move your body without shame or fear of how your skin folds or shakes.
6. We’ve got more to grab onto.
It’s a fact, most men want to have some skin to fondle when they are having sex. “They don’t want to feel like they are sleeping with their little brother so a feminine body makes the experience even more sexy for him!” says House.
7. We’re better at cuddling.
“Curvy girls are awesome in bed, especially when they’re body-confident! We’re cuddlier and snugglier, and all that extra physical contact just makes for a much more intimate, connected experience even when it’s just a quickie,” says Kelly Shibari, the first-ever plus-size cover model for Penthouse Forum.
8. We’re not afraid to laugh.
Many chubby girls who own their bodies also have a great sense of humor, which definitely makes for so much fun in bed, says Shibari. “We like to laugh and people forget that laughing can be an aphrodisiac!” Shibari says.
9. We’re less judgmental.
Chubby, curvy, fat, overweight women who are sex-positive and are confident about their bodies tend to be just as accepting of partners who are bigger, or have other body hang-ups of their own, says Shibari. This makes for an all-round fun sexual experience, because you’re able to let go and just have fun!”
HANDY GUIDE: Nine hot sex tips for women to drive their men wild in the bedroom
LADIES, listen up! If you want to drive your man wild in the bedroom we’ve got the tips for you.
You’ve heard of little things called erogenous zones before, but do you know where they are on a man’s body?
There are apparently nine areas that turn a man on in the bedroom.
Some of them are obvious – if you’re not touching those areas you’re definitely doing it wrong – but some of them may surprise you.
Sexperts spoke to Women’s Health about which areas to focus on to really get a man going.
Here are the nine places you should be focusing your attention.
The mouth is a very important erogenous zone.
Kissing boosts levels of dopamine in the brain, a neurotransmitter that boosts desire and the reward system in the brain.
Try tracing his lips slowly with your tongue, or softly bite his lower lip, sexologist Carol Queen suggests.
And of course, don’t forget full on making out can be just as fun.
If you’ve ever had someone play with your ears and liked it, then it makes sense your man would like it too.
In fact, in a survey ears came in just behind the scrotum for places that can help men climax.
Try gently nibbling or licking his ear.
Or try whispering something sexy to spice things up.
The skin of the scrotum is quite sensitive and can really turn a man on when touched.
You should definitely keep the biting and nibbling at bay here though.
Instead try sucking, licking, cupping or gently squeezing them, sex coach Charlie Glickman suggests.
“Start with your hand around both balls, then bring your fingertips together over them – like you’re picking up a napkin off the floor,” another expert said.
Who doesn’t like their neck being kissed?
Think about the tingles it sends through your body – it does the same for him.
And the nape of his neck in the best place to focus, according to a study published in the journal Ergonomics.
You should kiss him there with your mouth slightly open while humming.
“The combination of heat and vibrations will help prompt some serious sensations for him,” sex expert Emily Morse explained.
Or try using a vibrator to massage his hairline.
By now you’ve probably worked out that what works for you can also work for him.
In a recent survey for the journal Cortex, men admitted that nipples were one of their top spots for stimulation.
Carol suggests gently sucking or licking a nipple while touching your man down there for extra pleasure.
6. The shaft
You’re probably already focusing on the penis to get him in the mood.
But how you touch it can make all the difference.
According to a survey published in the BMJ men rate having the top of their shaft touched.
And when it comes to how much pressure to give your grip – sexperts suggest it needs to be fairly firm.
That’s because the erectile tissue sits fairly deep beneath the skin, so a good amount of pressure is needed.
7. The tip
The tip of the penis, called the glans, has a lot of nerves – more than the shaft, in fact.
It’s the closest thing to a clitoris a man has.
So whether you are using your hands or engaging in oral sex, be sure to focus some attention here.
8. His bum
Men have a G-spot too – it’s the prostate gland located about a finger’s length inside the bum.
Not every man will want you to stimulate it though, so check with your partner before you stick anything anywhere.
But if they are up for it, it can be quite an experience for them.
FALLING IN LUST? Couple having sex while skydiving! WATCH VIDEO
A French-Canadian porn star took his career to new heights when he videotaped himself having sex while skydiving with the receptionist of the skydiving company where he moonlighted as a part-time instructor.
Alex Torres aka “Voodoo” has since been fired from Skydive Taft, but no termination decision has been made about his fellow Mile High Club member Hope Howell.
The award-winning pornographic actor (who was born Alexandre Boisvert) was trying to get the attention of Howard Stern.
The video shows them screwing in the plane on the way to the jump-spot, as they jumped out together, and STILL having sex as they soared through midair upon pulling the ripcord and deploying the parachute. Epic!
FAA spokesman Ian Gregor says any activity that could distract the pilot while he’s flying could be a violation of federal regulations. Skydive Taft owner David Chrouch says he fired part-time skydiving instructor and porn star Alex Torres and hasn’t decided whether to fire the company’s receptionist, Hope Howell, who he said was Torres’ partner in the video.
Authorities say Torres had posted the video on his blog but removed it on Monday. Chrouch said he found out about the stunt when a Taft police officer told him that the video was making the rounds at a local school. Taft police Lt. Ed Whiting told KGET-TV that no criminal charges are pending.
At one point in the video the couple is shown seated in a jump seat right next to the pilot. “No I wasn’t concerned,” Chrouch told KGET. “He was in complete control of the plane at all times. I mean he looked back a couple of times. The same thing he does if there are other skydivers in the plane. He is going to look back, he’s going to look around to see what everyone is doing.”
If your partner does THIS for a living – they’re probably cheating on you
IF YOU have suspicions that your lover is cheating on you, take a look at their job.
No one wants to know that they’re being cheated on, but sadly it happens.
In fact, previous studies have shown that 45% of men and 21% of women will have admitted to cheating on their partners in the past.
So if you’re worried that your other half is sleeping around you might want to have a long, hard look at thier job.
Ashley Madison, the world’s leading married dating website, surveyed over 1,000 of its members to find out which jobs hold the most cheaters.
Results found people in more stressful and dangerous jobs are more likely to stray.
It found that 23% of women who work in the medical profession cheat on their lovers.
And for men, those working in the trades profession (29%) are most likely to engage in an extramarital relationship.
The study also found that 44% of respondents will stay more loyal to their job than thier partner.
Isabella Mise, Director of Communications at Ashley Madison, said: “A combination of long hours of potential stress mixed with a natural reaction to stress just might be the reason these women in the medical profession seek out an affair.
“Jobs in teaching, entrepreneurship and finance also all topped the list for female members.”
“And jobs in trades often mean irregular hours and are often structured in shift work meaning it’s easier for men to fly under the radar when it comes to sneaking around with an affair partner.”
Top careers for female cheaters:
1. Medical – 23%
2. Education – 12%
3. Entrepreneur – 11%
4. Finance – 9%
5. Social Work – 9%
Top careers for male cheaters:
1. Trades – 29%
2. Information Technology – 12%
3. Entrepreneur – 11%
4. Retail/Hospitality – 8%
5. Finance – 8%